entitlement, sense of, 18, 21, 51
exercise, 53, 99, 132, 161, 207, 224, 225–226
exhibitionism, 18, 22, 172
fairness, judgment of, 232–233
family, 57–58, 63, 64, 93–94
abandoned by father, 60–61, 73, 75, 76, 199
dead member of, replaced by adult child, 123
narcissism in all members of, 37, 152–154, 195, 229, 237, 247–
248
of narcissists, 12, 20–22
fantasies, 30, 65, 73, 164, 178, 205, 221, 238, 248
grandiose, 18, 20, 21, 29, 144
in healing, 148–149, 254, 257
father(s), 13, 20, 50–52, 75, 80–81, 123–125, 127, 148, 161, 187,
200, 204, 210, 230–232
abuse by, 50, 51, 59–60, 73, 74, 77, 112, 115, 185
of author, 36–44, 72, 91–92, 93–95, 120, 122, 126, 128, 149,
151–152, 169, 170, 171, 172, 176, 180–182, 183–184, 216,
218, 221, 223–229, 233–234, 249
distant, 58–65, 73–74, 75, 83, 84, 89, 164
dreams of, 112
family abandoned by, 60–61, 73, 75, 76, 199
incestuous feelings in, 50, 192
Jewish, anti-Semitism of, 183–184
in negative introject, 55–69, 111–117
nonnarcissistic, 101–102, 103, 133, 141–142
other people’s children favored by, 65
premarital vs. postmarital behavior of, 80
puritanical, 133, 135, 137, 138